thanx for the help!
I have been doing a lot of reading and found a lot of people have the same problem as me:
bug
BZ 3270: Crash upon opening inbox
Try this instead: from the start button go to the OOTP folder, then the folder for your version you want to uninstall then the tools folder then try the unlicense shortcut there.
Also didn't work... just opens a word pad doc.
will give this a try later 
If that doesn't work, try this:
http://www.ootpdevelopments.com/boar...licencing.html
And if all else fails, contact elicense and ask them to unlicense it on their end.