Well remind me not to let you coach my sons ball team ever....

Just kidding of course.
Maybe we could be more help if we had a little more information...
1)Do you set your own line ups or do you use your coaches line-ups?
2)Do you play pitch by pitch or one pitch mode?
3)Can you give us a breakdown of your line-up/roster?
I am not promising anything, but I do coach/manager the occasional game, while letting my AI Manager handle most of the work. Well see if we can give some suggestions.